What Is Prayer?
For most of us, prayer has a very personal meaning and significance that may depend upon our religion, cultural or spiritual traditions and practices.
Prayer is a spiritual practice found in most cultures of all ages.
For some, “conversations” with God, Allah, Elohim, a higher power, or the angels, guides and masters all has a purposeful transcendent power in our daily lives.
Whatever it may be, prayer has been probably the first form of healing and spiritual practices in the human culture since the beginning of humankind.
How Can Prayer Help My Child?
Prayer can uplift and support healing on a global level, addressing the whole person mind, body, and spirit.
Most children can easily learn how to use prayers, intentions, and positive thoughts.
Children can find a sense of peace, control, and clarity when they use this tool to express themselves.
They can be individualized to assist a child of any age or ability.
Prayer is important for parents and family members to join in the creative process for not only the child, but for themselves.
What Types of Prayers Are There?
- Intercessory prayer: Praying for someone else
- Distant healing prayer: Praying for the healing of someone or something at a distance
- Petition prayer: Asking God or a higher power for something or some intention
- Centering prayer: Centering on a word or phrase for a minimum of 20 minutes in silence, usually in order to open to the sacred
- Contemplative prayer: Opening to union with God or the sacred
- Meditation: Often times differ somewhat by religion. In Christianity, the goal of meditation is often union with God. In Buddhism, the goal is to expand awareness and gain insight into the nature of passing phenomenon. Mediation may be practiced by sitting in silence, often while following one’s breath, doing intentional movement, or using visualization, imagination, or a specific object or mantra as a focus.
How to Teach Children about Prayer
When children are little, standard religious prayers or personal intentions are always an easy way to have children understand the importance of understanding that there is a higher being beyond ourselves.
Children respond well to asking for guidance, forgiveness, healing and being appreciative and thankful of our many gifts and blessings during their prayers.
However, teenagers will most likely not be very interested in child-like prayers.
They usually like to throw the baby out with the bath water and rebel against their traditional and cultural upbringing.
Institutional churches and religions might represent corruption, greed and power for many teens, so prayer may be more attractive to them in another form.
Prayer can also be action such as acts of kindness, social justice activism or meditation.
Prayer in this form may be the only spiritual connection for teenagers during these very tumultuous and trying years.
What’s Important about Prayer?
Spiritual prayer beyond the physical realm is an important realization for all of us.
The concept that “things happen” in our lives and we can’t always blame God, the church or whoever, is the perfect reason to have prayer in our lives.
Teaching children of all ages that life happens and prayer can help us overcome the obstacles and difficulties and gives us a higher insight to understand that all things are purposeful with meaning even though we might not understand this concept in the moment.
Children, as all of us, need some form of spiritual prayer and meditation in their lives to help them cope and have hope as they live through each day with everyday trials and tribulations.