Voice of Truth: A Mother’s Journey to Help Her Son Heal from Apraxia of Speech

By Tori Starling
Voice of Truth recounts the daily journeys of Tori Starling in helping her son heal from childhood apraxia of speech. Not only did Tori use the services of traditional speech-language pathologists (SLPs), but she also employed SLPs who specialize in apraxia and newer communication techniques. Along the way, she discovered that using a functional-medicine approach helped tremendously. Her son Jake lost his diagnosis at the age of five because of her dogged determination to hear her son speak.

What Is Childhood Apraxia of Speech?

Childhood apraxia of speech is a condition in which children have trouble planning and coordinating their jaws, lips and tongues to produce reliable speech. Speech is thus a fine-motor skill. The condition is similar to an adult’s loss of speech after a stroke, although with children, their speech hasn’t fully developed as it has with an adult. This condition is a neurodevelopmental disorder, meaning that it affected a child during typical development. Apraxia of speech refers to the total or near-total lack of age-appropriate language.

This condition is common in children with:

In this book, Tori writes that “There are no official statistics on childhood apraxia of speech, although it is believed to be one to ten per 1,000.”

In This Book

Tori’s book is a collection of blog posts that she wrote on her journey of getting her son Jake diagnosed with childhood apraxia of speech at the age of two and of the lengths she went to have him become a reliable speaker by the age of five. In our experience, her efforts went above and beyond (with great effect!) what is typically prescribed to most mothers of such children in that she looked at the disorder as a whole-body condition, much as Martha Herbert PhD MD describes autism as a whole-body condition.

Tori’s description of her son is almost all too common: As a baby, Jake had ear infections, eczema, gut issues, occasional asthma and an egg allergy. Not wanting him to be on medications for these conditions for the rest of his life, Tori took Jake when he was two years old to a naturopathic doctor whose first order of business was to put Jake on an elimination diet for three months, which Tori describes as “like pressing a reset button on Jake’s system”. The diet helped with many of his other symptoms, but he was still without speech, so Jake began speech therapy with ultimately five different speech and language pathologists (SLP). Tori noted that the Kaufman Speech Praxis Workout Book, Kaufman flash cards, hand cues and the PROMPT method were helpful.

“Aha” Moments

One of Tori’s “aha” moments came when she realized that Jake’s speech improved after eating chocolate, which proved to her the gut-brain connection. Another was her discovery of Claudia Morris’ peer-reviewed medical study from 2009 that showed that apraxia of speech can be due to nutritional deficiencies in vitamin E, omega-3 fatty acids and carnitine as well as due to antibodies produced in the body after consumption of gluten. She began working with an integrative MD who advised to remove both gluten and dairy from Jake’s diet and address his specific nutritional deficiencies with supplements, including those for a methylation mutation known as MTHFR. Tori noted that “Jake said his first sentence within the first week of his diet and supplement plan.”

Yet another “aha” moment came when Tori noticed that Jake’s speech improved after a Pulmicort treatment for his asthma, and she realized that both his body and brain were inflamed. Yet again, she realized that the body and brain are connected. She incorporated a low-sugar diet as well as acupuncture to help address the inflammation in Jake’s body and brain.

In Conclusion

When you read this book, you’ll cheer for Tori and Jake as they progress to Jake’s diagnosis reversal at the age of five. While Tori didn’t know this would happen, she followed her mother’s intuition and kept exploring to discover that a root-cause, functional-medicine, whole-body approach was necessary to help her son heal from all of his diagnoses, except for his allergy to fish. While every child is different, integrative and functional-medicine practitioners such as those listed in our practitioner directory can help you remove the blocks to your child’s healing.

About Tori Starling

Tori Starling is a holistic health practitioner and the founder of Simply Holistic Solutions, which provides natural health options for children and teens. Her journey began when she used natural health strategies to help her youngest son transition out of apraxia of speech, eczema, and multiple food allergies. As her son’s health improved, she began to formally study natural health and energy medicine.

Tori is the author of the blog Jake’s Journey with Apraxia and Crazy Free, a novel about healing generational trauma. She holds a bachelor of arts in journalism from the University of Georgia, and is married with three sons. Tori is passionate about reversing and preventing the chronic health issues that today’s children face. For more information on her holistic health services for kids, visit www.simplyholisticsolutions.com.

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Sources & References
Resources
Apps

Proloquo2Go

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Bronston, Berri. Devoted dad is partner in autistic graduate’s success. 22 May 2018, Tulane News.

Kedar, Ido. I Was Born Unable to Speak, and a Disputed Treatment Saved Me. 23 Sep 2018, Wall Street Journal.

Selhub, Eva. Nutritional Psychiatry: Your Brain on Food. 18 Sep 2022, Harvard Health Blog.

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Bock, Kenneth. Healing the New Childhood Epidemics: Autism, ADHD, Asthma, and Allergies: The Groundbreaking Program for the 4-A Disorders. New York, NY. Ballantine Books, 2008.

Campbell-McBride, Natasha. Gut and Psychology Syndrome: Natural Treatment for Autism, Dyspraxia, A.D.D., Dyslexia, A.D.H.D., Depression, Schizophrenia, 2010.

Chinitz, Judy Hope. Spellbound: The Voices of the Silent. Independently published, 2023.

Dorfman, Kelly. Cure Your Child with Food: The Hidden Connection Between Nutrition and Childhood Ailments. Workman Publishing Company, 2013.

Gaivin, Dawnmarie, et al. The Spellers Guidebook: Practical Advice for Parents and Students. Skyhorse, 2023.

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Handley, J.B., and Handley, Jamison. Underestimated: An Autism Miracle. Skyhorse, 2021.

Herbert, Martha, Weintraub Karen. The Autism Revolution: Whole-Body Strategies for Making Life All It Can Be. New York: Ballantine Books; 2012.

Kaufman, Nancy. The Kaufman Speech Praxis Workout Book. Northern Speech Services/National Rehabilitation Services, 2005.

Kedar, Ido. Ido in Autismland: Climbing Out of Autism’s Silent Prison. 2012, Sharon Kedar.

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Sando, Julie. Small Steps, Big Impact: A Progress Playbook For Communication Partners. 2020, independently published.

Starling, Tori. Voice of Truth: A Mother’s Journey to Help Her Son Heal from Apraxia of Speech. Juniper Ray Publishing, 2024.

Devices

Logitech Keys-to-Go Portable Wireless Keyboard for Apple

Podcasts

Patricia Lemer: The Autism Detective: Dawnmarie (DM) Gaivin: Spelling for Non- and Unreliable Speakers, May 23, 2023.

Patricia Lemer: The Autism Detective: Judy Chinitz: Just Because He Doesn’t Speak Doesn’t Mean He Has Nothing to Say, January 28, 2021.

Patricia Lemer: The Autism Detective: Judy Chinitz: 2nd Episode: Spellbound, 3 Years Later, July 13, 2023.

Schools That Use Assistive Technologies

Colmena Academy

The Hirsch Academy

Invictus Academy

Videos

Spellers the Movie

UnderEstimated: The Heroic Rise of Nonspeaking Spellers

Websites

Autistically Inclined

California Lutheran University Autism and Communication Center

Growing Kids Therapy Center (GKTC)

Helping Autism through Learning and Outreach (Soma RPM)

Inside Voice

The International Association for Spelling as Communication (I-ASC)

Mouth-to-Hand Learning Center (M2H)

Reach Every Voice

Spellers Information

Spellers Learn

Transcending Apraxia

United for Communication Choice